My son, Being your dad is the greatest gift in the world. My commitment to you is to step into the greatest version of myself, daily, to SHOW you what is possible.
It will be a sneak attack disguised as your fears, assumptions, past traumas and it will manifest slowly.
There’s too much talk ABOUT things. The personal development space is one of circular talking, often re-enforcing defenses, rationalizations and excuses packaged as personal empowerment.
It’s been a really extraordinary year for ETL (and me) and this puts an unexpected bow on 2021 and a really strong anticipation for what God will do in 2022.
At some point, a man must push himself past the paradigm of Peter Pan into the propensity of transforming pain into power.
These are deeper questions, and often ones we procrastinate, as the paradigm shift required elicits a confrontation of ones beliefs, traumas, assumptions and patterns.
Most people settle. Most people never break out of the paradigm of their parents. Most people accept “good enough.”
We’ve become a culture so enmeshed with woke, feminized culture that anything masculine is deemed “toxic.”
It was surreal to watch him find his groove and, in real time, adapt and progress at a pace that was unexpected by all of us.
Doing what is required, in and of itself, isn’t difficult. Becoming the man who’ll commit to that action; THAT is what’s difficult.